Okay, everybody! The news that you've all been waiting for!
Matthew and I are engaged!
After almost 9 months of courting and getting to know each other and praying for the Lord's will for our lives, Matthew asked me to marry him on Saturday, August 1st, 2015!
He called Mom that afternoon to ask her if we could finish the milking chores early because he had a plan for the evening. After milking, Matthew asked me to where my green dress because he was taking me out to eat! No problem there! Dad and Mom were going with us on a double date, so the four of us loaded up in his car and headed to Red Lobster. As they led us to our table, Savannah, Ethan and Noah were there waiting for us, but as Mom and Dad took their seats, the waiter stopped us and said, "Your table is over this way." We walked a few tables away towards the back of the restaurant and there was a table with a beautiful bouquet of orange roses and a lit candle waiting. Awe....
We sat down across from each other and chatted until we placed our orders. He then suggested we pray for the food. We held hands across the table during prayer, since it's the only time we held hands during courtship. After a beautiful prayer that had us both teary-eyed, we said "Amen" and I started to pull my hands back but Matthew held them and started out,
"Kelsey Ann Hammond, would you....".
After listening to his lovely, heartfelt proposal I gave him a wholehearted "Yes!" and we both got teary-eyed again. He told me that he didn't have the ring in yet, but he slipped a "temporary" ring on my finger for me to wear until the "real" one comes in. (Which I can't wait to see what it looks like!)
He then asked if he could tell me something. I nodded and he looked into my eyes and said,
"Kelsey, I love you."
It was the first time we told each other that we love each other because we were waiting for engagement to say that. So it was the sweetest words I've heard!!!!
My family came over to congratulate us and look at the ring and hear how it went and then our food came. Matthew and I talked and laughed and planned so much that all we did was nibble on our food. We each ordered a meal and had plans to order a cheesecake to split, but we didn't hardly even touch our meal, we were so excited!
As we left Red Lobster later that evening, he took a wrong turn out of the parking lot. Little did I know that the evening wasn't over. He took us out for Putt-Putt and we all had a wonderful time there. He even had my mom bring an extra change of clothes for me! (He thinks of everything!)
At the beginning of the game, he handed me a bag of golf balls with answers written on them.
One said "Maybe next year" and another one said "No way!" while yet another said "I'll think about it". They were all the different answers I "could've" gave, and somewhere in the bag was a big "YES!" which I had to find! I did and told him that the "yes" ball was the only one I was going to play with! LOL!
As we played our way around the course, the gazebo came into view. I commented on the Christmas lights, but when Matthew brought it to my attention again and I looked at it one more time, I noticed that the lights were strung in words.
He and Ethan had come earlier that day and set up the lights to say
"Kelsey I love u."
(The "love" was in the shape of a heart.)
To be engaged to marry Matthew, the godly man I have prayed for for many years, the man I love, the man who loves me is the best feeling in the world! We are so excited and have had a wonderful time wedding planning.
We all sat around and were talking and trying to decide on what date to go with. Matthew has always said that he would like a short engagement, only as long as it takes to plan a wedding. Sounded fine with me, since we both really want to be married.
We picked a date of September 12th, 2015!
Due to the fact that I really want my sister, Jordan, and her family to come from Canada, she is due with their third on October 9th, they can't travel for a few months after the baby's birth due to passports and birth certificates, we don't really want a winter wedding, fall would be a beautiful time for a wedding and honeymoon and future anniversaries.....we picked sooner rather than later.
We set a tentative date and before we told anyone outside of family what the date was, we had to find a location and a dress. If we found those things in the first week, then Sept. 12th it would be. Well...we got engaged on Saturday evening, and by Monday afternoon Matthew had a location and I had a dress!!!! Dad, Mom, Savannah and I traveled down close to Atlanta to a dress shop that specializes in modest wedding dresses. I tried on a handful of dresses, many of which were too big. There were a few there the next size down and after trying on all but one, the owner notified me that this was the last one. As I was trying it on, I was running through the dresses in my mind and trying to figure out which one I liked best. Any of them would've worked, so I was just going to pick one. As I stepped out of the try-on room in the last dress, I knew I had found "the one"! It was absolutely lovely and just what I had been looking for. And the best part about it was that it was my size and it was well below our budget!
The wedding was on!
Since then, things have been coming together beautifully, with the Lord working out details like only He can do. We are almost done with all of the major planning and it's only been a little over a week. Everyone we talk to in the wedding planning world (photographers, location owners, dress shops, etc.) tells us we can't plan a wedding in that amount of time, but our God is proving them wrong! We are so excited and can't wait to see what the Lord has in store for our future. Please keep us in your prayers as we continue to plan for our wedding and our life together!